21 May 2008 (France)
MPAA Rating: UNRATED
IMDB Rating: 7.1 / 10
Release Date:
Length: 150 min
Tags: comedy, drama

If you can get over the French subtitles and embrace this two
and a half hour film you will not regret it. Limited release in the
English-speaking world did not hold back the public's embrace of
this film, and it is widely considered a modern classic.
We don't generally consider Christmas films to be among the elite
in filmmaking. However, this film is certainly an exception. This
2008 French film was considered for the Cannes Film Festival's top
prize, the Palme D'Or, showing once again that the French take
their film seriously, no matter the topics or themes
involved.
The film centres on the Christmas gathering of the Vuillard
family, who have a lot of troubled back-story and strained
relationships, which are very well developed, but overlap in ways
that can overwhelm at times. Junon Vuillard, the mother of the clan
is diagnosed with a degenerative cancer, and only a bone-marrow
transplant will offer her any chance of survival. Attempts with her
eldest - Elizabeth, an often overwrought playwright - and her
youngest - Ivan, the logical problem-solver - were to no avail. And
so, at the Christmas dinner the trouble-making middle child, Henri,
who is openly disliked and was previously banished from the family,
returns.
There are lots of references made in the film, from snippets of
The Ten Commandments, Funny Face and A Midsummer Night's Dream from
1935, as well as quotes from Shakespeare, Nietzsche and more.
Arnaud Desplechin seems to be saying that not even the lucky, the
learned or the rich can avoid such familial problems. It revels in
the differences of character that play out in family instances, and
we can all relate to that.
The film has been compared to Johnathan Demme's Rachel Getting
Married, which is not unfair, but there is a lot more playfulness
on the surface here, despite the tension involved. Sure, there are
interrogations on past foibles and the odd fist fight, but there
are is also laughing, fireworks and decorating the Christmas tree,
with some quick and piercing dialogue and a genuine message of
good-will to all.
Fun Fact:
The film's origins stem from Desplechin's desire to make a French
version of a Thanksgiving movie. He also cites the embarrassment of
introducing friends to your family at a young age as an influence:
"There's a shame in showing your family to friends because all the
family's naked imperfections are revealed. You can't hide how
ridiculous they are."